We are ALL truly unique and very similar.
Really? Seriously? These are two of my favorite questions. People ask them all the time. What I like more than these questions are the ones that follow. Life has taught us all different ways to communicate, some of them effective, ineffective, valid, or invalid. All of them different. We all do the same thing for VERY different reasons and you CAN NOT assume the reasons are the same.
We are ALL truly unique and very similar.
We CAN all get along and STOP treating people like they owe us something.
Add comment May 23, 2009 randomstringsofwords
Human or dancer
I have recently acquired another “issue” for lack of a better term. Apparently my liver or gall bladder is ready for some one-on-one quality attention. So I’m paying it, because I am a huge fan of taking care of my shit. That may not be apparent to a lot of people who are casually in my life, but I know what I need to pay attention to and what I can ignore.
Two weeks ago I started having pains running from my belly button straight up two inches. It was a new pain, I have always had stomach issues and never felt a pain like this before. It was pretty mild, but obvious that something was wrong. I made a doctor’s appointment, but had to see the new partner who we will refer to as Super Hot Doctor. On Friday after he gave me a pelvic exam, Super Hot Doctor starts feeling around on my stomach and says that he thinks he feels a hernia. A few hours after I leave Super Hot Doctor in the dust, I develop two additional pains. One was to the right just under my rib cage and the other was lower down on the right close to my panty line. On Monday I made an appointment with my doctor for Wednesday. She isolated the pain to the liver or gall bladder, sent me for bloodwork, to pee in a cup and I am having an ultrasound this Wednesday.
It hurts to dance. I love to dance, I dance anytime I can. Right now I can’t and it makes me feel extremely vulnerable. And it also makes me think of The Killers song Human. I am a dancer and would like for this human “issue” to be resolved so I can be a dancer again.
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Getting to know all about you
Hilarious! It’s so funny listening to get to know you conversations. People’s same taught responses passed down through the years of brainwashed bliss. It’s crazy, certifiable actually. Straight jackets should be required, yet somehow these are the people that run this whole planet. It’s pretty fucking lame, I wish I could step inside their brains and poke around for a bit. Just long enough to find their little ‘get it’ switch and flip it.
So few of them get it. We are who we are, we can’t be anyone else. I know exactly what to tell you, but I choose to tell you what I’m thinking. I am going to love you for who you are because I have no use for anything else. I would like for you to do the same.
You can’t be that person who flips things to negative. If someone wants to attack you they will do it sooner or later. Whether it is psychological, physical and/or sexual is really the only mystery. They come in two forms and variations of both; the ones who are completely unaware of their actions and trapped in their immediate responses and/or mental illness and the ones who are fully aware of the impacts of their behavior.
The unaware have a tendency to react quickly, I don’t even like to start with these people. The plotters and planners take their time, and boy are they fun to play with – when they will actually play. I usually scare both types, the first immediately and the second after a few conversations. I’m a firm believer in stepping forward. A closed mind and lies make that an impossibility.
The good thing is that most often, these types of people get out of my face. I appreciate it for what it is. A gift. Unfortunately, it is also a huge curse. I relate to people in their sixties. I have always identified with adults. Now as an adult I am starting to notice the change in the atmosphere, balances in my life have shifted and I can relate to more people my age.
People completely stuck in patterns don’t usually understand me. They tend to be primarily straight, imagine that. I know I’m completely shocked that a straight person is incapable of stepping outside their little box to see the world for what it is. The differences are what make us beautiful. We should embrace the similarities and differences in others, not judge and ridicule. In a perfect world we would all have what we want. I do realize that this is not the case, but I do my part to ensure that it is around me. I like living in neutral territory. I didn’t even know it existed until I was 18.
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Musing
I inspire positive people to be better than they think they are
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Competition
I will give you everything you need to take advantage of me.
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I this, I that
I am a compilation of my past.
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Hate & Anger vs Love & Passion
Hate expressed in anger is hate. Love expressed in anger is passion.
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Invalid emotions…
…should be processed accordingly.
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